Triage: Crisis Management When Your Marriage Is Impacted by Homosexuality
By Mike Goeke
Mike and Stephanie Goeke were married two years when Mike gave in to his long time struggle with same-sex attraction and left Stephanie to pursue homosexuality. Mike’s decision destroyed Stephanie’s world, but her faith in God and His promises sustained her. Mike eventually came home, and together they began the process of rebuilding their individual lives and their marriage. In 1999, they started a ministry out of their church called Cross Power, which focused on helping married couples impacted by homosexuality. Mike is a counseling pastor and Stephanie is a mom and homemaker. They have three children.